Who’s fooling who, if someone, especially someone you felt safe with, decided that they would take away the glorious hair that sprouts from your head, you’d have a meltdown. Disagree?? Flip over to any random make-over show and there is someone well over the age of 12 having an inappropriate (and possibly, completely ridiculous) PUBLIC meltdown about not wanting to do something that they haven’t done since around 1999 (and that’s being modest). Most adults are leery about getting a hair cut, how could it be expected that the little ones should be more tamed? Let’s be honest, the idea of someone taking a pair of (buzzing clippers or sharp scissors) near your head can be quite the traumatic experience, mainly for young ones.
So yes, let’s start by saying that you could always take the rock star parent route and let your kid rock their coif untamed and free and let those locks grow out; unfortunately we all can’t have KISS worthy flowing rock locks. However, most of us must tackle haircut hatred, so here are 5 tips for helping your kid (& you) learn to cope with getting their hair cut.
Believe it or not, getting your haircut is a delicate situation, think about it; we’ve all had a haircut go the way of Alfalfa, a trim turns into a pixie cut… Yea think back to that time in the 5th grade… Sheesh! Either way, never forget the fact that haircuts can and do go wrong and it shouldn’t be hard to conceive why a little kiddie would be intimidated and uninterested in going under the knife, ahem, the blade… See what I mean? So first thing first, remember to always be patient and to remember some empathy; and as always, remember your mood will set the tone, so make it a good one. Now let’s snip on over to the tips (pun-intended):
1. Use Your Words Wisely
It is easy to forget that words can work in several ways, make sure that the terms you use with your little one doesn’t have too many meanings. Children are highly vocabulary sensitive, more than everyone else. Try using words like “trim, clip,” or “snip,” as opposed to “cut.” Remember; a cut is also what happens when they get a scratch (ahem, a boo-boo) out on the playground.
2. Show You Better Than I Can Tell You
Find a way to show them that they will not be harmed during the process. You could, perhaps, get your hair trimmed first. This will ensure that they